kids are worth it! Revised Edition: Giving Your Child the Gift of Inner DisciplineHarper Collins, 2 feb 2010 - 352 páginas The parenting classic, now revised with new chapters, checklists, and information about today's most pressing issues regarding our children This bestselling guide rejects "quick-fix" solutions and focuses on helping kids develop their own self-discipline by owning up to their mistakes, thinking through solutions, and correcting their misdeeds while leaving their dignity intact. Barbara Coloroso shows these principles in action through dozens of examples -- from sibling rivalry to teenage rebellion; from common misbehaviors to substance abuse and antisocial behavior. She also explains how to parent strong-willed children, effective alternatives to time-outs, bribes, and threats, and how to help kids resolve disputes and serious injustices such as bullying. Filled with practical suggestions for handling the ordinary and extraordinary tribulations of growing up, kids are worth it! helps you help your children grow into responsible, resilient, resourceful adults -- not because you tell them to, but because they want to. |
Índice
Three Kinds of Families | 20 |
Threats Punishment Bribes and Rewards | 42 |
The Triangle of InfluenceEncouragment | 69 |
Three Alternatives to No and Other Plan Bs | 90 |
I Can Be Me | 102 |
Keeping Your Cool without Putting Your | 115 |
Realities Mistakes and Problems | 137 |
Getting Your Kid Out of Jail and Other | 158 |
The Big C and the Three Rs Chores | 208 |
Money Matters | 245 |
Mealtime | 259 |
Bedtime Doesnt Have to | 274 |
Ready Sit GoToilet Training | 289 |
Sexuality Is Not a FourLetter Word | 299 |
Epilogue | 311 |
Settling Sibling Rivalry without Calling | 174 |